Transformational Life Coaching Therapy

Is Conflict necessary to help us find and follow the spiritual path or is it an opportunity to find your treasure within?

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If we learn to use conflict as an instrument to help us bring about our own internal issues, then we can stop blaming the world for the energies and forces we are faced with every day. When you stop blaming, you become very empowered individual and can make very positive choices for yourself and help others along the way. One of the biggest obstacles in healing our wounds & traumas or any problem is that we identify with the experiences. Identification is a trap and causes much suffering. What we need to do is shift our sense of who we are in that experience, allowing our true self to emerge, the free and joyous self.

 

Taking your own internal issues instead of projecting them out upon others / (society) is a sign of maturity ~ and mastery. It is not about controlling other people; it is about control of that which lies within each of us. If we can learn to merge and master our own inner forces, we can see why conflict is a spiritual necessity and why this law applies to most [and in a higher to all] - the world. Work on our inner conflicts first and then we will see our outer world begin to heal.  We were taught at a very young age not to express our feelings. In the home and at school we were told to just accept the situation. This caused us to suppress our emotions. Many of us, learned to use some of the suppressed emotions as a means to motivate us in our life.

 

Some of the negative emotions become self-serving in a lot of positive ways. Meaning, why would we want to get rid of anger if it motivates us out of the feeling of sadness or makes us get off the couch to exercise? Why would we want to get rid of anger if it keeps us feeling safe? 

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Well, if I told you the anger that helps to motivate you also is attached to depression, anxiety, resentment, sadness, loneliness, uncertainty, not feeling worthy, alienation, and so on.....and the excess of this charged emotion, is causing more trauma than good. 

We end up staying locked inside this story which becomes a morphic energy field of emotional energy. This energy field causes relationship problems towards ourselves and others.

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People often give the responsibility of their health away to others—their doctor, their spouse, their acupuncturist, massage therapist, counselor, their practitioner, and drugs, supplements. This can help us feel better for weeks, months & even years,

but the old pattern / the unprocessed negative emotional energy will rear its head eventually & usually in the most impromptu time. 

We let out little through blaming family, friends, co-workers, employees ect.— but by blaming others, and holding these resentments, we lose our own power to heal, and the (wound) or unprocessed emotional baggage remains. You will feel either victimized or you become the perpetrator yourself projecting onto others; your boss, friends, even strangers on the road or at the grocery store .....I think you get my point.

 

When your mental & physical health is unbalanced, it is simply a sign, or you can say; 'a call for help' to heal a hurt within yourself.

 

Holding this energy internally causes so much distress & suffering within the body that it eventually will manifest an illness &/or pain body.

 Carrying guilt and shame also has a huge impact on our health mentally and physically. Many times, we do forgiveness mentally &/or spiritually, but the body can still be holding the emotional impact that trauma. The body keeps the score! 

This is where the mind and body healing need to come together. The body may still be carrying the effects of what happened even if you mentally think better of the situation.

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Every trapped emotional energy is significant in your life. Each one has had an impact on you in some way or another. Each comes from a specific time or event that was experienced either by you or someone else that you inherited or absorbed the energy from. These energies affect us in a variety of ways create challenges, problems pains of all sorts, both physical and emotional.

 

The choices you make right now, starting from this very moment, will shape your current and future health. Starting with being aware of your thoughts, and the feelings that come with your thoughts. Understanding what is motivating you is self-empowerment!

If you have a willingness and desire to open up to a new way of perceiving your life events, then I can help you.

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You will be embarking on a new journey with new thoughts, learning to love you and in return begin to have a deeper love connection for others.